Man Shamed Wife for Not Cutting Off Her Father: “You’re Less of a Person”

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A user wanted to know if he was wrong for telling his wife that she is “less of a person” for not cutting off her father after he asked her to. Her dad is weird and awkward with his son.

Getting Serious

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The original poster (OP) explained that his six-year-old son started living with him while his ex went to school. OP said that he met his current wife through work, and he also met her father, who works at the same company, just in a higher role than both of them.

OP’s wife knew he had a son, but OP said she couldn’t meet him until they were a serious couple because it wouldn’t be fair to him.

Her Father Was Weird and Awkward Around His Son

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When OP’s wife finally met his son, they got along great. OP invited her and her father over for dinner. Her father also met his son for the first time. OP said her father was “weird” and “awkward” around his son and made comments about his appearance.

OP said he confronted him after dinner, and he made some “pathetic” excuses. After that, OP said he did not want him to contact him outside of work, and he asked his wife for space.

She Cut Off Contact With Her Father

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A couple of weeks later, his wife told him that she had cut her father off because of his beliefs. OP said their relationship strengthened as a result.

When they got engaged, she said she didn’t want her father at the wedding, and they both transferred to other companies. OP said that her father was gone from their lives as far as he knew.

Expecting Mother

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OP said that his wife is currently pregnant and due in a month. She has begun maternity leave and has been looking for a new job to start after her maternity leave is over.

OP said that a few days ago, she sat him down and told him that her father had gotten her an interview for a job at the company they all used to work at together.

She also told OP that she had been talking to her father for a couple of months and wanted to know how OP would feel about him having a relationship with their future child.

Reconciled With Her Dad but He Feels Betrayed

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OP said he told her the truth. He felt like she had betrayed him and his son, who she said she thought of as her son as well. OP told her that her even asking that of him makes her less of a person in his eyes.

He said she started crying and asked him what kind of insensitive jerk would call the woman pregnant with his child less of a person. OP told her that was how he felt, and although the language was harsh, he felt it was justified.

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One Reddit user posted in the “Am I the ***hole” group on Reddit, asking whether she was wrong for cutting her vacation short and returning home after her husband asked her to sleep on the floor instead of the bed.

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They DESTROYED His Skid Loader and Didn’t Pay Him Back Now They Want Him to “Get Over Himself”

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Is he holding a grudge, or does he have a legitimate grievance?

A Reddit user has shared a story about how a 10-year-old grudge has caused a rift between her brother-in-law (BIL) and her family.

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Her in-laws were totally delusional, and she just lost it!

A woman, 27 years old, was expecting her first child with her husband. This child was the first grandchild in the husband’s family. Now, we all know the excitement and adoration that comes with the first grandchild’s arrival.

Unfortunately, it was not all jolly for this woman as her husband’s family couldn’t just accept the gender of the child.

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Parking War: The Neighbors Keep Parking in Front of His Grandparent’s Home So He Made the City Put a Handicapped Spot There

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A Reddit user has shared his parking wars story after he got the city to put a handicapped spot in front of his grandparent’s house.

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She Interrupted Her Husband’s Live Stream and Screamed At Him Live, On-Air After He Abandoned Their Child To Catch Up With His Fans

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A woman posted in the “Am I the ***hole” wanting to know if she was in the wrong for interrupting her husband’s live stream and going off on him after the man abandoned their child.

She Interrupted Her Husband’s Live Stream and Screamed At Him Live, On-Air After He Abandoned Their Child To Catch Up With His Fans

 

 

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Originally posted 2023-10-04 12:30:56.